Tag-Archive for » Blather «

I don't believe in god.

Traditionally, religion is considered an untouchable thing. Even these days I often get the feeling that no matter who I discuss god with, they consider themselves to have “won” the discussion by virtue of being a believer. Questioning religion, wondering about the events and stories that created what people follow today – regardless of faith – should not ever be anything people are ashamed of. I would encourage any religious types to answer questions honestly and well, and allow the person you are speaking to the option to keep asking. If you have such strong faith, you should be able to take a little curiosity about it.

I don’t accept that it’s okay for religious views to be imposed on the rest of society. I don’t accept that it’s fine and dandy for church rulings to be included in national law. I reject the notion that it’s perfectly acceptable to hate, and abuse, and destroy other people simply because they don’t attend the same church as you.

I understand the community and fellowship of church going, and for the most part I don’t have a problem with people believing whatever they want. I refuse to let religious ideals about women, behaviour and belief be imposed on me. I have a button that reads “It’s your hell, YOU burn in it” which pretty much sums up the feelings i have there.

I believe it is possible to live a good, moral life without having to subscribe to outdated laws and beliefs. For example, I may be a heathen but I am not and never will be a murderer. I will not commit adultery. I give to charity and volunteer my time for various causes. I am polite to old ladies in the street. I care for animals. It IS possible to live a good life with good morals without having to be told you’re going to hell every five minutes. It’s possible without fear of punishment.

Over the years I have met many deeply religious people. Most of them are very good about their faith and know that trying to get me to go to church is about as fruitful as nailing jelly to a tree. Pointless, tedious and ultimately there are no winners. I don’t avoid religious people, just as I don’t avoid religious second hand stores (bargains people, bargains). I do wish more so called Christian groups were doing work like the Salvation Army who seem to actually make a difference to people’s lives rather than preaching about it.

In short, I don’t believe in god. You can believe all you want, but don’t judge me as less than you for my “lack of faith”. I have faith in nature, in life and in science. This faith is just as strong as anything anyone gets from a book of fables.

Happy Blasphemy Day.

Category: Life  Tags: ,  5 Comments

Consider the kid.

I have a number of friends from high school who have since reproduced. Facebook is fun for this sort of thing, you can compliment the cuteness of the child with no danger of actually having to hold or entertain said child. Oh sure I’ve met a few off spring. Emma’s baby was only 6 weeks old at the 10 year reunion, and Joanne has brought her boys into the library a time or two. All good.

Thankfully, my friends are the kind who seem to understand that while people might want a peek at the kids, we don’t want the entire story.  Most have at least a few pics of the kids at the zoo, playing in the mud, reading with grandma or first days at kinder or school. Very cute! We don’t want to see pictures of bathtime, potty training, full nappies etc. Frankly, the first person on my friends list who posts a photo of their naked child will be removed from my friendslist post haste.

There’s a couple of things about posting pics of your naked kids online. The first, and maybe biggest issue, is that once you upload that photo you lose all control over it.  You don’t know how many copies are out there, you don’t know who has it or who is passing it on. Certainly you can hope that your friends are not a concern, but you don’t know.  This doesn’t just apply to facebook, in fact you could say it applies more to blogs, but the fact is it’s just NOT a good idea to upload pics of your kids naked.

A friend of mine once directed me to a blog belonging to a friend of hers (and mother of her daughters best friend). Amongst the holiday snaps was one of their 8 year old in the shower. Seriously. Out there, on blogger. I left a comment suggesting they remove it, and found my comment deleted and a note added to the blog saying “Damn commenters think they know it all, don’t you tell me how to raise my child!”.  I ended up reporting the image to Google and having it deleted because, hello? If I can see your blog, anyone can. Locked down accounts are one thing, but public accounts are so incredibly not the place to post these pics.

The other problem is that you’re basically removing your kids right to privacy. If someone took a photo of you on the toilet and posted it to facebook or anywhere else you’d probably be furious, so why is it apparently okay to post pics of kids like this? I understand potty training is a very exciting step in parenting, and sharing it with your friends is understandable, however no one needs pictures. In my day a photo was probably taken maybe once a week, these days you can upload 400 almost identical photos to Facebook in less time than it takes to get a roll of film developed. It just seems to me that some of those photos would be better left unshared with the general population.

I’m not knocking parents, I seriously DO understand that having kids is a fantastic thing (for most people) and wanting to show them off is natural, but on behalf of your kids – it’s not cute splashing their naked butts all over the internet.  Edit your photos before they go up, and take out the ones that you wouldn’t want posted of yourself.

PS. For more scary parentstuff on Facebook, I quite like STFUparents. That’s what inspired this very effing profound post.

Category: Life  Tags: ,  Leave a Comment

Snow'd

snowshow

I went to see Slava’s Snow Show last night. To be honest, I wasn’t really expecting much. My Aunt bought the tickets for my mother and I for our birthdays, but I wasn’t overly keen to go. I changed my mind within about three seconds of the start of the show.

See it. Go go go go see it. The performances are theatrical clown, overflowing with joy, pathos and hilarity. The staging is so stunningly simple and effective it’s hard to believe it’s so minimal. Moments of pure magic when the lights drop for 2 seconds and then come up to a new prop. Amazing.

Go see it. Don’t leave during interval, because you’ll miss some excellent clowning.

Category: Life  Tags: ,  Leave a Comment

Melbourne.

I have a love/hate affair with Melbourne. I love parts of it – Fed Square, the library, the museum, but I hate the streets of it. I think that’s just my thing about crowds really.  Comfest? Love. Food and Wine Festival? Hate. I went in to the city today.

It’s about an hour on the train to get to the city loop, which isn’t too awful, but can get boring on the way back when you’re really just gagging to get home. I went in to visit Borders, which is nicely located about 30 seconds walk from the train platform. The trip in was mostly normal. There were some early football people heading in. I managed to skip the big footy crowd.

About halfway to the city a couple sat on the seats facing me. They were… interesting. She was done up as though she was about to shake hands with the Queen and he was in YuppieCasualYetSmart with huge expensive sunglasses and a huge expensive laptop bag. She was in long evening gloves, full make up and a black velvet dress under a very expensive jacket. Her hair was swept up with a huge (and ugly) blinging feathered clippy thing. They spent the entire time on the train talking about his job, and how the “bottom line” was “down to him” and sometimes you “have to cut out the deadwood, which is what he told the girl when he fired her, because the bottom line was…”. They got off at the footy stop, so I can only assume they were in a corperate box somewhere and not roughing it in the stands. People like that amuse me.

So anyways. I hit the borders website last night and came up with a goodly selection of books I wanted. They were PCOS and Saxaphone books (not.. in the same book. Though that would be awesome). Got to the store and they had not a single thing in. Bastards. I bought 2 PCOS books anyways and then wandered aimlessly through the city trying to get my bearings (I only go in about three times a year, I’m easily lost). Readers Feast had a delicious selection of crochet books, but each only had about 1 project I wanted to make, so I didn’t get any of them. With the help of The Boyfriend who was googling for me, I managed to find Dymocks who had – hooray! The exact PCOS book I wanted AND a good saxaphone one. Ten points to Dymocks.  I resisted the craft section there.

After finding lunch (a brilliant focaccia, I love when they toast it and then add cold lettuce. Makes for extra numminess) I decided I was totally over the whole being in the city BS and longing for the quiet trees of home I made my way to the station. As I slipped my ticket into the gate I realised the 2:15 train was not only there, but the announcement was running. So I got to do that movie thing where you fling yourself through the closing doors. Which sucked, coz I’m unfit. Better than waiting 30 mins for the next one though I suspect.

The train back was quieter, apart from two teenage Hanna Montanna wannabees who were Like, talking about Like, her really like bad haircut she would have to like, dye or like cut off or like something. Yanno? They were on the train for about 45 minutes and in that time they updated their facebook status about 10 times each. “I’ve put chillin with em” “OMG that’s so sweet, lemme change mine” “Did you say you’re on the train?” “Yeah” “Okay I’ll change mine”

I can’t believe I was ever 15.

Category: Life  Tags: ,  6 Comments

The Librarians

Series Two of “The Librarians” started last night, and frankly I am a little bit in love all over again.

I’m aware there’s a lot of grumbling in the Library Industry about how it’s “unrealistic” and “They’d never get away with that sort of thing” but please, people, it’s a sitcom. Are you honestly telling me you think “Porridge” was an expose on the prison system in the UK? That ANYONE actually loves Raymond? Relax!

I love the characters, not just because Francis seems to be based in several parts on people I know in libraries. I love the variations in personality and the insanity running not too far under the surface. Sure, skipping a library bus stop wouldn’t be let go like it was in last nights episode, but the general feel of the show isn’t too far off the mark in my opinion.

Maybe that’s why there’s so many grumblings, because library staff feel it cuts too close to the bone in some cases (example, one of my favourite scenes in the last series was a night time event which was attended almost entirely by library staff – I laughed for about 20 solid minutes at that because it’s happened to us too many times).

However, as Wayne Hope said, it’s not REALLY about libraries, it’s about Francis. She just happens to be a Librarian. While my workmates heap scorn upon it, I will continue to love it wildly, because even if it wasn’t a library show, Wayne Hope and Robin Butler write excellent comedy.

Category: Life  Tags: , ,  2 Comments

Downsizing

stripes This is my former handbag, as of today. It panders to two of my affections: Greyscale and stripes. Also, apparently, to my fondness for huge bags. It is a very excellent bag. They’re made from recycled canvas awnings, sturdy as hell and also very roomy. You can’t tell from this shot how big it is, but it’s just over laptop bag sized. They’re designed for cyclists, so there’s a reflective stripe on there. I haven’t had it long, but I love it. Sadly, there’s something not greart about this bag, something I… didn’t want to admit. Something I finally had to face today.

This bag is an enabler.

somuchcrapI don’t want to come over all “Clutter is the enemy of the soul” but shitfire, how much crap do I haul around on a daily basis??

What is in there: Smokes, several lighters, purse, phone, pager aaand brochures from my trip, minutes and agendas from 5 months worth of meetings, sewing patterns, pens, a ton of loose change and god only knows what else. I weighed it. 6 kilos. SIX kilos of crap I drag around with me all the time. Good lord.

So, because i am trying to improve myself in various small ways, not the least being spending less time digging around in my bag for keys, time card or lighter, I splashed out on a new bag today.newbag

Apart from being red (YAY red! That’s my bed spread it’s on, so you can probably guess my favourite colour) and having kinda hippy flowers on it, it’s smaller. Not a massive amount of smaller, but it doesn’t expand as much as the old one. It also has handy pockets to stop me bagdialling people on my phone and to keep my timecard nice and handy so I can swipe in slightly closer to time. My only sadness about it is that the strap isn’t adjustable, so I can’t wear it the super daggy way over my chest, but I can live with that.

Here’s to dragging less than 6 kilos around with me in future!

Category: Life  Tags: , , ,  4 Comments

Envelope Fail

“Hey mate, could you go and shove these 3000 envelopes under windscreen wipers in the carpark?”
“Sure no worries”

envelopes

Someone should have been more specific.

Category: Life  Tags: ,  Leave a Comment

Hello Indeed.

Did you ever get the urge to just start over? I have, many times, and at least online it’s a simple process of walking away. In the past, I’ve not had a ton of luck with that, slipping back to the old blogs almost as soon as I leave them, not wanting to lose the 7 or 8 years worth of posts.  There’s no reason to delete those, and they can stay where they are, on the same server as this one but seperated by a URL.

Oh lordy me how utterly utterly dramatical, no? I don’t mean to be. I enjoy blogging, but it’s much like the past weighing in on the present. Unlike a paper journal that you only keep to hand for as long as there’s pages to write on, an online blog seems to reach back into the forever. So I consider this my new book. Blank pages and good quality ink to play with (I prefer Noodlers).

This here is my place holder post, since I’m currently writing from work (naughty girl). I want to blog again, and more imp0rtantly I want to change who I feel I am. Does that even make sense? I mean, I wish to be the woman I wish to be, rather than the woman I am. So there’s that, perhaps a “journey” (god I hate that term splashed around. Weight loss journey, parenting journey, improvement journey… it’s such new age clap trap. I digress).  Maybe later on tonight I will get into the who I am, but I also have a chapter to record for Librivox later (quiet house required, so it might not be until tomorrow anyways). I’m sure there’ll be time.

So hello. Welcome to blog number 78 bajillion on these here internets. Make yourself at home, comment your butts off, do a little dance, make a little lurve, clean up after your own damn selves. :D

Category: Life  Tags: ,  3 Comments